Patience-Key to success?

The answer is a BIG Bold YES!

Some things take time to come as it is a matter of time and location.

However, our psychology sometimes hit us hard to be wanting to reap the good (profit/benefits) fast without us  being patient enough to wait for it to nurture further.

It’s always good to invest in something for a long-term basis.

Failure-What it means?

 Failure is a positive aspect in life.

It teaches you valuable lessons that if, taken for granted would not do the same impact.

The more you fail, the better it is because you have vetted more options in life which directs you towards better things in life/goal.

This is what once my lecturer told me once I was in the alma mater. This statement is something which is very powerful but requires mental strength to endure it.

Why a person behaves such way?

We might have heard people gossiping of another person saying that

-The person is x,y,z and blablabla…

But little did we know how she or he was brought up perhaps (in a different environment) which she or he does not have any control over it.

Last time, I used to ponder on why the person is acting or behaving as such. Then, I realized it may be due to several factors exposing them to how they react or behave at the present.

Factors include:

-Family background

-Friends

-Internet exposure

-Interest level

That is why people say everyone was once a beginner in learning something (reacting/behaving). It’s best we guide them too if we know what is right/wrong. It is absolutely wrong to make fun or laugh at them as we never know that we may be doing something wrong but others corrected us instead of teasing.

Is it good to have haters in life?

Ever heard the saying which goes -Haters going to hate?

Well-The bitter the hate is, the better it is

Why?

It simply means that you are doing better than whoever it is that is in a hate relationship with you because they failed to be ahead of/beat you. Often, this kind of relationship is not obvious (internal) because imagine why should a person show hatred towards you in the obvious ways. However, you may notice it in the ways they interact with you (look at the way they communicate when in-person and in-group).

Nevertheless, looking at the brighter side, the presence of haters simply would be a great achievement because they (your haters) are afraid of your competition towards them which makes them feel uncomfortable and means you are on the right track or in other words, doing well.

Which you should

-Be continuously working on whatever skillset/achievement you are working on to become even better as psychologically it leads to a better mindset towards growth

-Be driven to escalate your progress and achieve the end goal

And remember,

-To work in silence under the shy of social media

As social media is where all bullshit/toxicity/fraud are being shared which confuses individuals. The reality is often the opposite of what is being portrayed there (You know better).