The simple answer is no.There are hundreds of thousands of people out there who are facing the same issue that you might be thinking that you are the only person with the mentioned issue.Yes,you might feel that you are of no use/worthless/hopeless at this moment but again it does not matter because you should be taking the positive side of it.Heyyy,you are wrongggg if you still think that you are useless/worthless/hopeless,you should KNOW that you are a highly capable being as you can do anything.Many people whom I met out there are facing this issue of comparing themselves to others.Yes this is a complete normal thing but at certain times,comparing too much can lead to mental instability.For instance,you may think that his/her life is better than mine and etc whereby material or lifestyle becomes the judgement criteria.You might see that a person might be happy from the outside,but you will never know the inner side of the person.But,you must also remember that he or she might be facing the challenges that you may not be able to see with your own eyes and thus it is better for you to see the best out of yourself.You should be happy of what you have and again we may hear the saying that "Live your life to the fullest."This saying is true because you should be living the most out of the moment.Just put it as past is past,present is present and future is future.Everyone is different and you may not know what he or she is facing in life.
Now let me tell you something that I discovered from my friends.
Well,I will not doubt that we overthink.I have some friends who think of their future too much until which their life becomes a mess.The best thing to do is to live life to the fullest at the moment.Let people think what they want and you know what,it actually does not matter.Why should you live under the constraints of others?
I realised that planning for the future sometimes can lead to immense overthink if one step does not go right towards realising the plan.Hence,it is best to have a rough idea of what should it be like.Never ever announce your moves until you have acquired your objective.
There are plenty of other aspects in life.So stop being uncertain of things and get it going.Everything will go fine if you do what is right.
The key towards happiness is to stop comparing to others and live life to the fullest.Surround yourself around positive people and not the ones draining your energy out.Your dream will come true if you appreciate what you have and feel happy for what others are having.
So just chill and be prepared to be adaptive.Build your relevant skills and start hunting your goal.
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